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Breaking up is never easy to do, or is it? That’s a question that many people feel can only be answered by the specific relationship experience. And sometimes it depends entirely on which side of the break up you happen to fall. The person who is broken up with, left behind, dumped, however you wish to express it, frequently feels that they have the most pain and sadness associated with the split. However, many people who do the breaking, feel that they are the ones who experience the most pain and turmoil during the process. This seems to be counter intuitive, though there are many reasons why this might be true. And for those of us/you who have had to make this difficult decision, we/they realize that it takes a lot of strength and courage to walk away from a long term relationship, knowing full well that it’s going to hurt the person we, at least once, cared about the most.

These people also tend to argue that both parties knew the relationship wasn’t working and that it was only a matter of time, or a decision to permanently settle, and the one who initiates the split not only shows the most courage, but also bares the brunt of the guilt and responsibility. This is on top of the natural tendency to morn the loss of the relationship, regardless of how badly we may have wanted out, or the unhealthy condition in which it ended. So, the next time you watch your beloved partner peel out for the final time treading the rubber of their Cooper tires , think about what they’re going through and try and have some sympathy, or don’t.

That last decision was a bit sardonic, as it’s generally difficult to feel sympathy for the person who has just dumped you. However, it’s important to remember that there are two people, at least, in any relationship and both are responsible for its success or failure. In addition, there is always the question of the nature of human monogamy and whether or not we should expect relationships to last forever. With this in mind, the success of a relationship should be determined by its quality and satisfaction, not for its longevity and sustainability. These are tricky topics for relationships, and most people who enter them, don’t plan on how it’s going to end, or pre-designate who will break up with whom. And for the unlucky person who makes the difficult decision to leave, there are some American racing wheels for sale for that essential, though difficult, final getaway. And you’ll be styling it as you go.

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